I’m Joe Cuenco with Family Resources. Today we’re going to be talking about some signals of the kind, you don’t want to get. Specifically, what are the signs of a cheating husband? Actually the signs of a cheating husband, if your intuition senses these things, the sad thing is that your intuition probably is going to be right. There are going to be some very subtle changes in behavior, or some overt changes in behavior that you need to be aware of. For example: the subtle changes, is he buying you flowers more frequently? Is he telling you how special you are? How much he loves you? Or, is he doing things like maybe going to the gym a lot more often? Going on that crash diet? Wearing his hair.
Differently? Wearing different clothes? Or, are you finding some new underwear, or things like that? Is he buying things for the kids? You know, just trying to deflect and change a pattern of behavior so that things are being masked in the household. Or, there could be deflection tactics, he may be accusing you of some, some errant behavior, or cheating behavior, or creating some animosity, some anger in a household so that he actually doesn’t feel so bad, that he’s been engaging in this bad behavior. Now, you can go through the process of trying to catch him, you know, taking a look at his emails, his text messages, his voice mails, or following him, using whatever electronic surveillance there is. There’s.
Even a program Cheater’s, who will help you, if you qualify, and make that determination, if your husband has been cheating on you. But, you need to understand that there, you’re probably going to have some responsibility, it’s always been a two way street. You know, couples, when couples deal with problems, no one is one hundred percent at fault, and the other one is faultless. But, so, you need to accept some responsibility, but not the blame. If you, if you really want to know, try the direct approach. Ask him. If he comes forward, and he’s honest, then you know what type of person, what type of character he has. And, if he’s in denial, then perhaps talking to his family or his friends, that.
May be the last option. But, signs of a cheating husband can be direct, they can be subtle, but they are there, you just have to educate yourself into understanding, you know, what to detect, and that’s how we check and catch a cheating husband. I’m Joe Cuenco, Relationships For Life.