How to Save Your Marriage And Stop Divorce Complete Guide for 2015
Hey, it’s Brad Browning here and I’m a marriage and breakup expert from Vancouver, Canada. And in this tutorial, I’m going to teach you how to prevent separation or divorce and save your marriage. This is obviously going to be a huge topic and I’m going to cover as much as I can in this tutorial. So sit tight and be sure to watch this entire clip, because I’m going to teach you things that most couples will never know about building a loving marriage. First of all, let me tell you who this tutorial is for. This tutorial is for people whose husband or wife announced that they’re no longer happy in their marriage. You may have heard.
Painful things like, â€œI’m just not happy anymoreâ€�, â€œI don’t love youâ€�, or â€œI’m leaving you.â€� Or, maybe they’ve already left you. No matter the case, I know how extremely difficult, stressful, and heartbreaking this situation isâ€¦ and I know how hopeless you might feel at this very moment. So I’m going to start off this long tutorial by telling you that there IS light at the end of this long tunnel. With the proper guidance, help, and attitude, it is possible to turn your marriage around despite how adamant your spouse may be on divorce. I know this because I’ve seen thousands of so called â€œhopelessâ€� couples turn it around â€“ and I know exactly how they did it.
With that being said, rebuilding a broken marriage is a rocky road. Sometimes, things can get a little worse before they get better, and it takes a lot of devotion on your part to make things better. However, I promise you that if you watch this whole tutorial and follow my advice very closely, you’ll have the best chance possible of rebuilding that marriage you and your spouse deserve. But before I get into what TO do to save your marriage, I first need to tell you about what NOT to do. The vast majority of married couples that I coach commit almost all of these very damaging mistakes. And I know that some of you might be in a situation where your spouse.
Isn’t willing to work on the marriage, but in a minute, I’ll tell you why that’s okay, and why it’s even more important for you to learn these common mistakes before you go down the road of rebuilding a newer, happier marriage. Some of this stuff you may already know, but it’s important to remember these mistakes before you cause any further damage to your marriage â€“ and these are tips that will have an immediate impact on your relationship. I like to call these mistakes my â€œBig Marital Mistakesâ€�. Big Marital Mistakes 1 â€“ Initiating needless conflict with your spouse. When you’re trying.
To fix a broken marriage and you’re feeling desperate, chances are things can spiral out of control very easilyâ€¦ (and I think you know what I’m talking about). You think that if you could just talk to your spouse about all your problems and find common ground, your marriage will magically fix itself and get better. But usually, this isn’t the case. While communicating with your spouse is important in rebuilding a marriage, what your marriage does NOT need right now is another argument or fight. Even if your partner says something antagonizing or wants to bring up a touchy sticky issue at the moment, do your best to.
Avoid conflict politely. Don’t ignore your spouse or discount any of their concerns, but you need to ensure that the discussion doesn’t end up in a screaming match. You can say something along the lines of, â€œI know this is a real concern right now and I want to resolve this issue, but can we discuss this later?â€� Try and be as nonconfrontational as possible â€“ at least for now â€“ until you learn how you can manage how to handle your arguments later. I’ll get to what I call my â€œDispute Defusing Systemâ€� later in this tutorial. If you have any questions or concerns about this common mistake, please be sure to ask questions in the comments section below. I’ll do my.
Very best to get back to you as soon as I can. The second â€œBig Marital Mistakeâ€� is begging and pleading, or being highly emotional. Especially in public. I know that when emotions are running rampant, people tend to say or do things that they’ll inevitably regret. I’m sure you know exactly what I’m talking about. At certain times, your spouse may say or do things that will make you feel angry, upset, or saddened, you must do your very best to control your emotions. Showing these negative emotions will only make matters worse â€“ and unfortunately, doing so will only help you sign those divorce papers even sooner. So for now, it’s extremely important to try and remain calm and live.
4 Text Messages to Save Your Marriage
Hey there, YouTube! You guys asked for it, and I deliveredâ€¦ in this tutorial, I’m going to talk about 4 text messages you can send to your spouse right now that will respark some of the passion and romance that’s been missing for so long. Yes, rekindling some of the desire and attraction CAN be that easy if you know what you’re doingâ€¦ It’s Brad Browning here, by the way. I’m a marriage coach and bestselling author. Now, before I get started with this tutorial, I first have to tell you how to NOT text your husband or wife. These are text messages that don’t build attraction, romance, or passion. And in some cases, these common text messages can actually make your spouse feel less attracted.
To you. So let’s jump into some examples of what NOT to text your spouse before we get into what TO text your spouse. Bad Text 1 â€“ The Demanding Text Message It’s obviously okay to ask your spouse to do something for you. After all, you and your spouse are married and you are a team. However, if you start demanding too much of your spouse, you could turn yourself into what I like to call a â€œTexting Terroristâ€�. If you want to improve your texting relationship with your spouse, then you’re going to have give him or her enough space and not constantly send a barrage of texts. It’s extremely.
Attractive to be highly independent in a relationship, so instead of constantly asking your spouse to be your servant, try and take responsibility for thingsâ€¦ even the little ones. Bad Text 2 â€“ The Overcritical Text Message Texts like, â€œYou’re always lateâ€¦ You don’t show me enough affectionâ€¦ You’re always watching TV,â€� are texts that are just asking for disaster. You always want to improve your spouse and support them, but sometimes we can show the support the wrong way. When you criticize or belittle your spouse, you aren’t encouraging them to be better. Studies have shown that telling someone how little value they have will force the person.
To actually believe that they’re worthless. Here’s a quick tip if you’re guilty of sending the â€œOvercritical Text Messageâ€�. If you want your spouse to improve on some aspect of their life, try using the word â€œIâ€� instead of â€œyouâ€�. For example, instead of saying, â€œYou’re so messy and you’re the reason why our place is always messy,â€� say something along the lines of, â€œI’d like it if this room wasn’t so messy, hun.â€� Small changes in the way you communicate with your spouse can make a massive difference in your relationship, so keep this in mind the next time you feel like criticizing your partner.
Bad Text 3 The Argumentative Text Another way you can turn yourself into what I call a â€œTexting Terroristâ€� is by constantly picking fights with your spouse through text message. Sometimes arguing through text can be easier than arguing in real life, but I would highly recommend against it. Why? Because while texting allows you time to come up with appropriate rebuttals, what you say can often times be misinterpreted, which could lead to an even bigger argument. You also don’t have the luxury of showing calming body language, which helps you keep arguments from getting out of hand. So the next time you have an urge to bring up a sticky issue through text,.
Don’t. Wait until you’re in the appropriate environment to have a serious discussion. Of course, this is only a handful of what I call â€œAttraction Destroying Text Messages.â€� If you want to learn more about these marriage murdering mistakes, then head over to my website, MarriageGuy and watch the free tutorial presentation on that website. Again, the URL is MarriageGuy . And by the way, if you can think of any other kinds of text messages you should NOT text your husband or wife, please use the comments section below and let me know. You never know, I might mention your example in my next YouTube tutorial!.
Now onto text messages you should send your spouse. These are text messages that are designed to spice things up and make things interesting again between you and your spouseâ€¦ but I have to warn you that these text messages aren’t for all situations. If you and your spouse are on the rocks or are currently not on speaking terms, then you probably shouldn’t be sending these text messages right now. But if used correctly, these text messages can work wonders on your marriage. Here are 4 text messages that you can use to spice things upâ€¦ 1.) Text Number 1 â€“ The Imagine Text.