Hi I'm Elora Murray and welcome to the Swinton Counseling News Network. When many people think of the word infidelity most they think of something physical. However, there is such a thing as emotional infidelity and it can be just as hurtful to relationship. Here are some facts to better understand what emotional infidelity is.Emotional infidelity is frequently described as an addiction caused by neurochemicals that are triggered by certain behaviors. In addition, couples younger than 30 are the most likely to experience emotional affairs.One survey found that 88 percent of women and 44 percent of men are more concerned by emotional.
Affairs than physical infidelity. Furthermore, nearly 80 percent of emotional affairs became sexually intimate.Signs of emotional infidelity include sharing intimate feelings and concerns with another person including marital troubles, comparing the other person to your partner and casting your partner in a negative light, spending time alone with the other person and making excuses for your behavior and becoming withdrawn and unhappy with your own family, as well as spending less time with them. That's all the news we have for you today. Once again, I'm Elora Murray and this has been a Swinton Counseling News Network report. Thank you for joining.
What Its Like To Be In A Long Distance Relationship
I am currently in a long distance relationship. For two and a half years it was long distance. The first was two years and I am in one now. We've dated for two years. Then we dated a year long distance. Then we lived together for a year and then we did six months or so long distance before it ended. We were long distance for a year. What It's Like To Be In A Long Distance Relationship The hardest part is feeling that nobody else thinks.
That what you're doing is sustainable. You don't have to plan your day around it, but you definitely have to make extra effort. So there'd be a lot of issues as far as communication where I'm not willing to Skype for three hours. We still call each other Sometimes. like every three days, I'd say. You run out of things to say on the phone. How was your day It was fine. Like, Did anything happen It's like, No, not really, like, It was just like a normal day..
And so then there's silence. What was special about my day and how did it change me and how can I share that with the other person Even if you're just sitting in the car driving someplace in silence, you're together and you feel that. And you don't have that when you're in a long distance relationship and you're trying to artificially recreate it but silence over the phone is, I mean, it's nothing, right Silence in person means something. You fall in love and it's hard and it's like,.
Will I connect with someone like this again And is it worth it When you really like someone or even love someone, it makes it worth it. You're constantly asking yourself, Is it worth it And I feel like I learn something new every time I ask myself that question. I mean, it wasn't worth it, right Cause we broke up. So. But, we were never like, But. this is ending our relationship. Yeah. It was just, this sucks, that this is our relationship right now.
Really when it comes down to it any your relationship ends, when either one person stops caring about the other or both people give up. I think the key to doing a long distance relationship is having an end in sight. Like a date, she would move in, Mmhmm. we would move in together in July, so, we knew that. And then we did. We did. Woooo. You really learn about communication and how to stay open with someone. It made us also, like,.
Not dwell as much on, like, little arguments anymore, unless you forget to bring your girlfriend potatoes laughing from the German restaurant. She will drill it home for an hour at you. This happened last night. Waiting, you know, several days before you can even talk or Skype with the other person. Or waiting months before you can hug them again. It's hard giggling. It makes you appreciate loving someone when you can see them everyday. Aaaww. Mmhmm. So sweet. lips smacking Man I had some.
Key Peele Text Message Confusion Uncensored
BEEN TRYING TO REACH OUT TO YOU ALL DAY. ARE WE ON FOR TONIGHT sighs JEEZ. WHAT YOU CAN'T CATCH ME. YOU CAN'T CATCH ME. I'M LANCE MOORE. TOUCHDOWN, BITCH. WHAT PAUSE. phone chimes OH, SHOOT. KEEGAN'S BEEN TEXTING ME. SORRY, DUDE, MISSED YOUR TEXTS. I ASSUMED WE'D MEET AT THE BAR. WHATEVER. I DON'T CARE. phone chimes SORRY, DUDE, MISSED YOUR TEXTS. I ASSUMED WE'D MEET AT THE BAR. WHATEVER. I DON'T CARE. WHATEVER. I DON'T CARE WHAT THE FUCK IS HIS PROBLEM DO YOU EVEN WANT TO HANG OUT.
DO YOU EVEN WANT TO HANG OUT OH, THAT'S CONSIDERATE. LIKE I SAID, WHATEVER. LIKE I SAID, WHATEVER FUCK THIS GUY. JESUS, YOU. ARE FUCKING PRICELESS. AWW. YOU'RE THE. ONE WHO'S FUCKING PRICELESS THIS M THIS MOTHERFUCKER HERE. OH, HE WANTS TO OKAY, MMHMM. MMHMM. OKAY. YOU WANT TO GO. RIGHT NOW HMM. GUESS I COULD DO THAT. clears throat OKAY. OKAY, LET'S GO HE SAID OKA OKAY, LET'S GO ALL RIGHT, YOU KNOW WHAT YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT TO REALLY. DO THIS NOW KEEGAN, YOU NUT.
YOU'RE NOT PUTTING ME OUT. FUCK YEAH, LET'S DO IT OH, YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE! FIRST ROUND'S MINE. OH, NO! OH, NO! THERE AIN'T GONNA BE NO ROUNDS, ASSHOLE! IT'S GONNA BE A FUCKING STREET FIGHT! THIS SON OF A 'CAUSE TONIGHT WE GONNA PARTY AND THE PARTY DON'T STOP YOU! BUDDY! LIKE I SAID, FIRST ROUND'S MINE. A BEER AND A GIMLET FOR MY PARTNER RIGHT WHAT'S THAT UH, II GOT YOU A BASEBALL BAT WITH NAILS IN IT. FOR MY POSTAPOCALYPTIC JACKIE ROBINSON COSTUME.
San Diego Marriage and Couples Therapist
Hi, I'm Jennine. Looking for counseling, either individually or as a couple it isn't easy. It takes guts to go into counseling and to face your problems, and it's important to find the right person guide you through the process. I strongly believe that counseling is not a onesizefitsall, and I tailor each session to my clients. I want to make sure that you get exactly what you're looking for, so let me tell you a little bit about Estes Therapy and the services that we offer here. I provide individual and couples counseling, all focused on relationships.
From singlehood struggles, to constantly fighting or infidelity, to LGBT issues to premarital preparation. I'm very active in the therapy session and use an approach called Emotionally Focused Therapy. This style of therapy is essentially based around our attachments to each other and how we respond. I have found it to be the most effective at getting to the core of any issue. I don't want to give my clients temporary BandAids. I want to help them make longterm changes quickly, and I believe that EFT approach is the best way to do this.
If you want to learn more about me and my San Diego practice, you can look on my EstesTherapy website. There's plenty of information that you can sort through to help you feel more comfortable before you even set your first appointment. You can learn more about me, how I work as a therapist, and the journey that I've taken as a therapist. You can even learn about the interns and what they specialize in. You'll have resources at your fingertips. You can read through the advice articles on both singlehood.
Marriage Counseling Attachment Injury Troy, MI 8006931916 Marriage Counseling
Hello my name is Lauren Knoll marriage therapist Marriage counseling and family therapist Great Lakes Psychology Group Great Lakes Psychology Group Lauren Knoll The term attachment injury was formulated by doctor Susan Johnson and Less Greenburg In their development of Emotionally Focused Therapy An attachement injury occurs in a loving relationship when one partner feels abandoned or betrayed during a deep moment of need In these critical moments of vulnerability one partner is crying out for help and comfort from their spouse who is their most important attachment figure on earth.
If these attempts at reaching out are not responded to or are treated insignificant it sends a message that their spouse cannot be trusted or relied upon this causes an overwhelming feeling fear helplessness and panic in the injured partner attached injuries can appear small, such as a husband or wife asking to be held and comforted been feeling ill and instead they are ignored in their time of need, or more obvious betrayals such as infidelity or a husband withdrawing after his wife suffers miscarriage these events can be so destructive because oftentimes the couple gets trapped in.
Marriage Counseling How to Deal With a Cheating Spouse
Hi, I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources. We're talking about how to improve our relationship skills today, specifically, how to deal with a cheating spouse. Just how do you deal with a cheating spouse Hopefully this is something that know one will ever have to deal with but basically there's a lot at stake here, it is your marriage so it really needs to be dealt with specifically and critically. What is really at the root cause What is the root cause of your spouse cheating Are they not getting something at home Is there.
Another issue, is it a relationship issue that needs to be examined A real relationship inventory really needs to be taken. Perhaps it's your spouse, does your spouse have a confidence issue, low selfesteem or is there other things going on Perhaps, your spouse needs to have some counseling or some professional help. There's the other side of the coin, is there excesses in some instances Is there drug use, is there alcohol use or something else going on that's addiction wise that's causing your spouse to be unfaithful Realistically, those attitudes and behaviors need to be dealt with. There's things that you could and just.
Keep that person out of the environments where may lead to some problems. Keep them out of bars, or strip clubs, or wherever the areas that create problems. Realistically, you have to ask yourself why would you want to deal with this situation because life is too short. Realistically, a cheating spouse displays a gross lack of respect for the family, for you and we know, from successful couples, that trust is a paramount issue. Trust is the first gate, beyond that, all the other dimensions, love, friendship and follow. We.
Have to recognize that some behaviors and some people will never change and then you have to make a decision on what you want to do and that's a very personal one. Again, don't take that lightly, use a counselor or some professional help to help you through that, make that decision. Sometimes it's a one time thing where somebody gets involved in a situation where a party or whatever and realistically, it was just situational. Many couples have been able to work through that successfully and be stronger. That's how we.
Its Not About The Nail
It's just There's all this pressure. You know And sometimes it feels like it's right up on me. And. I can just feel it like literally feel it in my head. And it's relentless, and. I don't know if it's gonna stop. I mean, that's the thing that scares me the most, is that I don't know if it's ever gonna stop. Yeah. Well. you do have a nail. in your head. It is not about the nail. Are you sure, because, I mean, I'll bet, if we got that out of there.
Stop trying to fix it! No, I'm not trying to fix it! I'm just pointing out, that maybe the nail is causing You always do this! You always try to fix things when I really need is for you just listen! See, I don't think that is what you need. I think what you need is to get the nail out See, you're not even listening now! OK, fine. I will listen. Fine. It's just sometimes, it's like, there's this achy. I don't know what it is. And I'm not sleeping very well at all.
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