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Rethinking infidelity a talk for anyone who has ever loved Esther Perel

Why do we cheat? And why do happy people cheat? And when we say quot;infidelity,quot; what exactly do we mean? Is it a hookup, a love story, paid sex, a chat room, a massage with a happy ending? Why do we think that men cheat out of boredom and fear of intimacy, but women cheat out of loneliness and hunger for intimacy? And is an affair always the end of a relationship?.

For the past 10 years, I have traveled the globe and worked extensively with hundreds of couples who have been shattered by infidelity. There is one simple act of transgression that can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness and their very identity: an affair. And yet, this extremely common act is so poorly understood. So this talk is for anyone who has ever loved.

Adultery has existed since marriage was invented, and so, too, the taboo against it. In fact, infidelity has a tenacity that marriage can only envy, so much so, that this is the only commandment that is repeated twice in the Bible: once for doing it, and once just for thinking about it. (Laughter) So how do we reconcile what is universally forbidden,.

Yet universally practiced? Now, throughout history, men practically had a license to cheat with little consequence, and supported by a host of biological and evolutionary theories that justified their need to roam, so the double standard is as old as adultery itself. But who knows what’s really going on under the sheets there, right? Because when it comes to sex,.

The pressure for men is to boast and to exaggerate, but the pressure for women is to hide, minimize and deny, which isn’t surprising when you consider that there are still nine countries where women can be killed for straying. Now, monogamy used to be one person for life. Today, monogamy is one person at a time. (Laughter) (Applause).

I mean, many of you probably have said, quot;I am monogamous in all my relationships.quot; (Laughter) We used to marry, and had sex for the first time. But now we marry, and we stop having sex with others. The fact is that monogamy had nothing to do with love.

Men relied on women’s fidelity in order to know whose children these are, and who gets the cows when I die. Now, everyone wants to know what percentage of people cheat. I’ve been asked that question since I arrived at this conference. (Laughter) It applies to you.

Why Your Husband Should Be Allowed to Cheat On You Pat Robertson

Pat robertson this guy is like character now on many occasions when people call them to christian broadcasting network with uh. asking for advice on their marital situation pat robertson is given the gradual advice uh. back in twenty ten he talked to go to a woman and about how.

She should quote maker so busy stragglers possible so that your husband of the cheat on you also ok uh. he once said i allow the muslims have you know what advantage over us there when i get out one day be them now recently had other outrageous callous in eight uh. they were of course and noted and then back in the day in twenty ten reload by media matters.

Reason they were rule noted by right wing watch it which is a padilla by people who live everywhere apparently pat robertson is very upset about this so they heat of the heir to say he’s coming this part of our program is his own high answer specific questions from specific people.

And my attempt as a pastor is to help them uh. have a better life and i have an answer to that question but they’re all organizations is one in particular which i will not name but is set out for one purpose to embarrass those who are conservative on television and so they take my words and twist them and distorts and believe me they’re.

People who are doing hiring last words were correct in case you haven’t warren i think it was like it was misconstrued sometimes also just to sort of situations industries misconstrued as deliberately they wanted to everything they can to make my words and they twisted s celeste and i will not identify the organization one that we may have a fullscale expose albeit.

No new animals kill expose while he’s not in a room yet buddies current already disaster bob pat robertson yes organization dictate your date twist a little impl amparo also will not stand for was untrue things of the christian broadcasting network apologized for his comments anyway into the networks when the statement that robertson’s comments on adultery was not to condone.

Infidelity or to cast blame insisting that they were incorrect any misunderstanding now you know the judge for yourself in a second well who’s right who’s wrong about this because we’re gonna give you the comments in their full context but first appeal for american way josh glass listing for them said this quote pat robertson doesn’t understand how rediculously extremely sounds to mainstream audience for decades he’s lived inside the bubble of the christian broadcasting network right we watch faithfully reports robertson’s comments.

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