How to Save Your Marriage And Stop Divorce Complete Guide for 2015
Hey, it’s Brad Browning here and I’m a marriage and breakup expert from Vancouver, Canada. And in this tutorial, I’m going to teach you how to prevent separation or divorce and save your marriage. This is obviously going to be a huge topic and I’m going to cover as much as I can in this tutorial. So sit tight and be sure to watch this entire clip, because I’m going to teach you things that most couples will never know about building a loving marriage. First of all, let me tell you who this tutorial is for. This tutorial is for people whose husband or wife announced that they’re no longer happy in their marriage. You may have heard.
Painful things like, â€œI’m just not happy anymoreâ€�, â€œI don’t love youâ€�, or â€œI’m leaving you.â€� Or, maybe they’ve already left you. No matter the case, I know how extremely difficult, stressful, and heartbreaking this situation isâ€¦ and I know how hopeless you might feel at this very moment. So I’m going to start off this long tutorial by telling you that there IS light at the end of this long tunnel. With the proper guidance, help, and attitude, it is possible to turn your marriage around despite how adamant your spouse may be on divorce. I know this because I’ve seen thousands of so called â€œhopelessâ€� couples turn it around â€“ and I know exactly how they did it.
With that being said, rebuilding a broken marriage is a rocky road. Sometimes, things can get a little worse before they get better, and it takes a lot of devotion on your part to make things better. However, I promise you that if you watch this whole tutorial and follow my advice very closely, you’ll have the best chance possible of rebuilding that marriage you and your spouse deserve. But before I get into what TO do to save your marriage, I first need to tell you about what NOT to do. The vast majority of married couples that I coach commit almost all of these very damaging mistakes. And I know that some of you might be in a situation where your spouse.
Isn’t willing to work on the marriage, but in a minute, I’ll tell you why that’s okay, and why it’s even more important for you to learn these common mistakes before you go down the road of rebuilding a newer, happier marriage. Some of this stuff you may already know, but it’s important to remember these mistakes before you cause any further damage to your marriage â€“ and these are tips that will have an immediate impact on your relationship. I like to call these mistakes my â€œBig Marital Mistakesâ€�. Big Marital Mistakes 1 â€“ Initiating needless conflict with your spouse. When you’re trying.
To fix a broken marriage and you’re feeling desperate, chances are things can spiral out of control very easilyâ€¦ (and I think you know what I’m talking about). You think that if you could just talk to your spouse about all your problems and find common ground, your marriage will magically fix itself and get better. But usually, this isn’t the case. While communicating with your spouse is important in rebuilding a marriage, what your marriage does NOT need right now is another argument or fight. Even if your partner says something antagonizing or wants to bring up a touchy sticky issue at the moment, do your best to.
Avoid conflict politely. Don’t ignore your spouse or discount any of their concerns, but you need to ensure that the discussion doesn’t end up in a screaming match. You can say something along the lines of, â€œI know this is a real concern right now and I want to resolve this issue, but can we discuss this later?â€� Try and be as nonconfrontational as possible â€“ at least for now â€“ until you learn how you can manage how to handle your arguments later. I’ll get to what I call my â€œDispute Defusing Systemâ€� later in this tutorial. If you have any questions or concerns about this common mistake, please be sure to ask questions in the comments section below. I’ll do my.
Very best to get back to you as soon as I can. The second â€œBig Marital Mistakeâ€� is begging and pleading, or being highly emotional. Especially in public. I know that when emotions are running rampant, people tend to say or do things that they’ll inevitably regret. I’m sure you know exactly what I’m talking about. At certain times, your spouse may say or do things that will make you feel angry, upset, or saddened, you must do your very best to control your emotions. Showing these negative emotions will only make matters worse â€“ and unfortunately, doing so will only help you sign those divorce papers even sooner. So for now, it’s extremely important to try and remain calm and live.
Signs Your Spouse Wants A Divorce And How To Stop It
What’s up ladies and gentlemen. in this tutorial, I’ll be sharing a few signs to look for that indicate your spouse may be thinking about asking for a divorce. If you’re worried about the state of your marriage, then it will be worth your time to watch this tutorial to the end to ensure that you know how to avoid this from happening to your relationship. My name is Brad Browning, by the wayâ€¦ some people call me the Marriage Guy because of my Mend the Marriage program, which is a bestselling guide to preventing divorce and rebuilding a loving and lasting marriage. For more marriagesaving tips or to learn about my program, please visit my website at MarriageGuy .
Now, let’s dive straight into the first sign that may indicate your spouse is considering divorceâ€¦ the first one is pretty obvious. Sign 1 Arguing Over Anything Everything. Yes, it’s no secret that an increase in the frequency and intensity of arguments with your partner are a clear indication that all is not well with your marriage. Now, don’t panic here just because you and your spouse are fighting a few times a weekâ€¦ every married couple will disagree and have conflicts from time to time, and it’s actually a healthy thing to argue now and then as long as they lead to resolutions or don’t leave lingering.
Hard feelings. When those arguments become daily occurrences, and tend to arise over almost anything, then that’s when things get a bit more dicey. For example, if you arriving 5 minutes late for a dinner date turns into a massive screaming match and results in both of you going to bed angry for the third time in a week, then that’s a problem. These kinds of arguments, if they happen frequently and tend to blow small grievances or disagreements way out of proportion, can indicate that your marriage is headed in the wrong direction. Most of the time, couples who argue too often but have otherwise healthy marriages can repair.
This problem relatively easily. In simple terms, if you and your spouse fight too much or argue often over small issues, you need to learn how to prevent the useless arguments and have more important disagreements in a more civilized and constructive manner. I’ve got some tips on how to do that in the tutorial on my website, MarriageGuy , so head over there after this tutorial if you want to learn more about arguing more effectively. Now, another and potentially more serious indication of an unhealthy marriage is when one or both of you stops trying to resolve conflict at all. Which leads me to the next pointâ€¦.
Sign 2 No Longer Willing To Resolve Conflict or Find Solutions. If your partner seems to no longer care about the outcome of a fight, or if they seem to feel as though trying to find a solution to your problems is pointless or hopeless, then that can be a clear indication of deeper troubles. When this kind of despair sets in, your partner may withdraw further and feel as though there will never be a way for the two of you to live together in peace. That’s obviously not a good thing, and it’s something that you need to work on if this has become a problem in your marriage. Sign 3 Lack of Emotional Connection and Withdrawal of Affection.
If your spouse has become distant and stopped showing affection towards you, that can also be a strong indication that they’re mentally checking out of the marriage. Often associated with this is an overall lack of emotional connection and a lack of willingness to discuss or show feelings and emotions. In my experience, this is one of the most obvious signs that a marriage is headed in the wrong direction. Usually, though, it’s more a symptom than a root problem, and resolving the core issues of your marriage can usually help rebuild the emotional connection and lead your spouse to begin showing affection again.
If you’re seeing this symptom as well as some of the others on this list, start taking action to stop the degradation of your marriage. Please watch the full free tutorial on my website, MarriageGuy , for some tips on how to turn the tides and hopefully rebuild a stronger marriage together. Sign 4 Rarely or never having sex. Sex can be symptom of other problems in your marriage if you’re always fighting and there’s no emotional connection, the sex is going to disappear as well. But it can also be a problem of its own and lead to a marriage crisis, whether it’s.