If youre trying to repair a long distance relationship, then this tutorial is for you, because Im going to talk about how to win back your ex when he or she lives hundreds or even thousands of miles away. Im Brad Browning, relationship coach and author of The Ex Factor, a guide to getting your ex back. If youd like to see more of my free tutorials or get in touch with me directly, please visit my website at BreakupBrad .
Ok, now, lets talk about how to get your longdistance ex back. The first thing you need to understand is that being hundreds of miles away from your ex complicates things quite a bit compared to a normal situation. Yes, you can still get him or her back, and Ive worked with hundreds of clients in longdistance relationships that have successfully won back their ex. but its usually easier if you live in the same city, so keep in mind that, depending on the details of your specific.
Situation, you may have a difficult road ahead. But, I dont want to discourage you, because there are some things you can do in longdistance scenarios to help your cause. In this tutorial, by the way, Im only going to talk about longdistance relationships. if you havent already, you should still consider watching my other tutorials especially the free fulllength tutorial presentation on my website to get details on the general principles and strategies you should be using to win back an ex.
Now, where to begin will depend on how long its been since your breakup and how serious your relationship was. If its only been a few days or maybe a couple of weeks since the breakup, the first step is to go through a period of no contact. This means completely ignoring your ex for around a month or so. The point of this is to show your ex that youre moving on, youre not going to wait around and hope that your ex changes his or her mind, and hopefully make your ex think that theres tons of other people.
Eager to take your exs place at your side. Remember that, no matter how badly you want to reach out to your ex and tell them how you feel and beg for another chance, there simply arent any words that can change your exs mind especially if they live hundreds of miles away. Attraction and romantic bonds are organic, natural things you cant make your ex fall back in love with you using words, it has to happen on its own.
During the no contact period and even after that, once you begin to talk with your ex again you should be using social media, mutual friends, and any other means at your disposal to subtly convey messages to your ex. For example, since you want your ex to think your life is great and youre already recovered from the breakup, you might consider posting some photos of you and some friends (preferably friends of the opposite sex) on Facebook. Or, chat up a mutual friend and casually mention that youve been dating.
A few other people and that youre really enjoying the single life. dont make this attempt to incite jealousy or convey a message to your ex obvious it needs to be subtle. But its definitely important to let your ex know, subtly, how awesome your life is and how quickly youre moving on. When its time to start talking to your ex again, I recommend beginning with a really casual, fun, and brief message (either text message, Facebook message, Skype message,.
Even an email). in my ex factor guide program, ive included a ton of examples of messages you can send to your ex to get him or her thinking about. so if youre struggling to think of what to write your longdistance ex, you might find the program helpful you can sign up at my website, BreakupBrad . Whatever you decide to say in your first message, keep it really short (no more than a few sentences) and make sure its fun, upbeat, and interesting. try to be funny, reference and inside joke,.
How to Get Your Ex Back If You Were In A Long Distance Relationship
Hi guys this tutorial is going to be all about how to get back together with your longdistance ex. So if you were in a long distance relationship that has ended too early, and you want a second chance, then youre definitely watching the right tutorial. Most of you probably already know me, but if not, my name is Brad Browning. some people call me Breakup Brad and Im a relationship coach specializing in breakups and divorce. My bestselling program, The Ex Factor, has helped tens of thousands of people from around.
The world get a second chance with their ex. if you need help getting your ex back and you havent yet seen the full length tutorial on my website, then head over to BreakupBrad right now and watch it before you do anything else thats BreakupBrad . Anyway, like I said, this tutorial is about long distance breakups. A lot of people ask me longdistance related questions, so I think its time I made a proper tutorial addressing the topic.
Now, unfortunately i have to start by sharing some bad news. id love to tell you that its going to be easy to fix your long distance relationship. Id love to say that all my longdistance clients are able to get their ex back and live happily ever after. But the unfortunate reality is that being far apart makes things a lot more complicated and as a result, odds of getting back together are lower than if you lived down the street from one another. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news there, but I want to be 100% honest.
Right up front so you guys watching this tutorial dont expect miracles. That being said, the good news is that its absolutely possible to get back together even if your ex lives far away. Ive seen my coaching clients succeed in reversing their long distance breakups hundreds of times in the past, so it can certainly be done. Its just a bit more difficult, and the chances of success depend greatly on the details of your specific relationship. For example, how far you live from your ex, how often you saw.
One another in person, and how long you were together all influence how difficult its going to be to get back together. If you and your ex met online, youve never met in person or have only met once or twice, and you live on separate continents, then unfortunately your chances of getting him or her back are very slim. I dont mean to offend anyone who is in a scenario like this, because I know your breakup is just as painful, but that kind of situation just.
Doesnt really represent a real romantic relationship, so you cant really use the tactics that I teach in my Ex Factor program. For instance, how can you send my Good Reminder text message which is essentially a text that subtly reminds your ex of a happy time you shared together if you never actually met in person? So yes, if youre dealing with an ex you met online who youve met only once or twice, its probably time to start thinking about moving on.
On the other hand. and this type of things is more common. if you and your ex met in person and then moved apart, or perhaps you met online but spent weeks or months together on holidays or inperson visits if you live on the same continent, and you can see one another at least once every month or two. then you have a much better shot at getting back together. This is especially true if you have spent months or even years living in the same city, but now live apart for whatever reason. in that type of situation, unless.
Youve already made some pretty serious mistakes, youve got a good chance at working things out with your ex. Another factor that will determine your chances of success is time. How long has it been since the breakup? A week? A month? A year? The more that time passes, the more difficult things become. If its been a couple of months and you havent been begging your ex for another chance every day since the breakup, then things may still be salvageable.