How to Prevent Divorce With Your Husband And Make Him Yours Again
If you’re in a marriage that you want to save but your husband is ready to call it quits, you aren’t alone. Hi there, my name is Brad Browning, and today I want to speak to the ladies and share with you five tips on how to prevent your husband from leaving you. As you may already know, I’m a relationship coach and marriage expertâ€¦ You may also be familiar with my YouTube tutorials, or perhaps you’ve heard about my bestselling Mend the Marriage program. If this isn’t your first time with me, welcome back, and if it is, thanks for watching, I hope you enjoy this tutorial. Now let’s get started. Just before a couple separates, one partner.
Usually reaches the point of being completely fed up. They don’t want to talk about things or try to work it out. For them, it’s over. For you though, your world is falling apart and you don’t even know how to begin handling your emotions. This is when the trouble begins. As you fight to salvage the pieces of your marriage and convince your husband to stay, you’re actually often doing more harm than good. It’s human nature to pursue what you need and want, but sometimes, when emotions are running high, you really need to do the opposite of what your instincts are telling you in order to get what you need. It’s important to realize that it took time.
For your marriage to break down, and that your husband is feeling hopeless and exhausted about the relationship right now. Something has pushed him over the edge, and that’s why he has decided that your marriage is over. This is where my five tips for divorce prevention come into play. Now, there are no guarantees, and you can’t completely control your husband’s decisions, but I have seen amazing things happen when one person in the marriage begins making the changes I’m about to talk about. But before I jump into these, I’d like to quickly say that if you want to learn more about saving your marriage, watch the free tutorial presentation on my website, MarriageGuy . That’s.
MarriageGuy . So, without further adieu. Number One: To best explain, let’s describe the worst thing you can do in your situation, and that’s to beg your husband to stay. As tempting or genuine as it may be, crying and pleading for your husband to give your marriage another chance will not change his mind. That’s because he’s already past the point of believing change is even possible. Instead, your desperation will have no impact on him, but it will make you appear pathetic and needy. Neither of those are appealing traits, and they aren’t likely to work in your favour. If you’ve already done this, don’t worry we can.
Still make things better as long as you don’t continue acting this way. Number Two: You need to keep things as simple as possible. Don’t prod for motives or you’ll lose his respect, and pressuring him to reconsider his decision will only make him more determined to end things with you. Instead, let your husband know that you want to work on the marriage and that you’re willing to do what you can to make it more satisfying. You won’t get him back right away, but it will help him become more trusting and maybe even get him to start talking with you again. The key is that he has to enjoy talking with you to want to be with you, and.
He has to enjoy being with you before we will consider trying to make your relationship work. You can begin by talking about things not related to the divorce, and find small things to agree on. If you have kids, they could be a good topic to start with, but there any many others. Keep in mind that at this stage you’re not trying to get him to reconsider the divorce, you’re just trying to have some pleasant, positive contact. The initial connecting can be the most difficult part, but hang in there. Number Three: Don’t do things or act in a way that is going to make the situation worse. This sounds simple, but what I mean by this is much more.
Complicated. Basically, you have to understand the role you play in the problems your marriage is facing. For example, if you’ve been complaining a lot, stop. If you’ve been moody, stop. If you’ve been lying to your husband or hiding things from him, stop. If you want to save your marriage it’s important that you focus only on how you contributed to the decline now is no time for the blame game. While your partner may be done with trying to work on your marriage, now is your chance to start fixing your flaws that pushed him away to begin with. Your spouse needs hope and evidence that your marriage can change for the better. Ask yourself: what has my husband been asking.
What to Do If Your Wife Wants a Divorce And Save Your Marriage
You’re happily married and things are going great. Or so it seems. Then, unexpectedly, your wife hits you with some shocking news: She wants a divorce. The announcement hits you like a ton of bricks, and suddenly you feel like a helpless child. But before you throw in the towel or say something you’ll regret, let me share with you my four big tips for preventing divorce with your wife. Hi guys, Brad Browning here and I want to thank you for joining me today. As a relationship coach and author of a program that teaches readers how to save their marriage, preventing divorce is a hot topic for me. So, let’s get started. If your wife comes to you asking for a divorce,.
Chances are she’s past the point of trying to work out your problems or asking for things to change. She’s feeling exhausted, and to her, your marriage is lost. For you this news may comes as a shock. Sure you know there have been problems but you didn’t think things were that bad. Well, now is your time to take action. If you want to save your marriage and convince your wife not to leave you, then it’s time to step up to the plate and make some changes. Before we get started I want to say that while it may seem impossible to save your marriage without the cooperation of your wife, I’ve helped many people in your situation. It’s true you can’t control your wife’s decisions,.
But I have seen amazing things happen when even just one person in the marriage begins making some positive changes. So without further adieu, here are the four things you can do to prevent a divorce. Number One: ACTIONS The most important piece of advice I can give you, is to not overreact when your wife tells you she is unhappy. As hard as it may be, you must stay calm. It’s perfectly okay for her to know that you’re upset and scared, but you need to keep control of your emotions. It’s true that humans have a natural instinct to pursue their needs and wants, but in situations like these where emotions are running high,.
There’s no room to act on instinct. Screaming, begging, hysterics, name calling, retaliation, blaming and abuse are things that you can’t take back. This kind of behaviour push your wife further away and make you look pathetic. At the end of the day you want to be proud of your actions, not ashamed of them. Simply put, you have two choices. One, you can be angry and wallow in self pity, or two, you can choose to love your wife through this difficult time. Even if your wife is stubborn and unresponsive, that’s okay. Just because she’s turned out the lights on your marriage doesn’t mean you can’t still shine. If you really want to prevent the divorce then you need to take the high road and commit.
Yourself and your actions to saving your marriage. Number Two: COMMUNICATION Developing great communication skills can be a powerful tool for overcoming issues in your marriage. However, communicating can be particularly tough when your wife is done with talking. No matter how hard it is to get your message through to her, at no point should you belittle, threaten, ridicule or manipulate your wife into changing her mind. Remember, your words and actions are your greatest allies right now, so keep them in check and in control. To help with your communication, try this quick exercise.
Begin by reminiscing about when you and your wife first got together, how you met, and what you enjoyed doing together. You probably kissed, cuddled, talked nights away and made love at every opportunity. You thought she was funny, smart, and interesting. You fell in love with her because she made you feel good. Try and capture those feelings again. Next think about your wedding and how excited you both were in the days that followed. By recalling these types of memories you’ll be able to reset your focus on what is important in your marriage, and find ways to communicate these messages to her. Over time, you and your wife have built a pattern of habitual actions and reactions.
Meaning how you act influences how she reacts and vice versa. Making a change in your behaviour will mean a change in your wife’s behaviour. If your new actions are positive, the relationship and your wife’s reactions can also take a turn for the best. In order to save your marriage without your wife’s help, you need to look honestly at your own behaviour and assess how you can change it to keep your wife. You can only change yourself, but in doing so, you will also change your relationship. Number Three: COMMITMENT Saving your marriage is going to take a lot of hard work and determination. Sometimes you will backslide and you may even try things.