Can you tell me why you should never forgive a cheating husband? If hes cheated once, hes far more likely to cheat again. He says he wont. He said he wouldnt cheat when he promised to have and to hold, to love and to obey. Women say theyre supposed to obey. For modern guys, it ought to be the other way around. But lets be honest, if you.
Caught him, he may have cheated more than once. I wonder what Im supposed to do. Get tested for STDs, make him get tested for STDs, and make sure you dont have sex until both of you come back clean. Thats going to be an embarrassing O.B.G.Y.N. visit. Not as bad as it would be finding out your husband is cheating because the OBGYN diagnoses.
You with an std. He says guys sometimes wander, and that I should accept his apologies. At least he didnt say it was your fault for not being hot enough in bed. But if hes excusing it, youre making a mistake by excusing it. I do not want to get a divorce. Women divorce guys for violating their trust and falling out of love. He violated your.
Trust and made love to someone else. Im devastated, but Ive heard we could heal. Youll always be wondering if hes having a late night meeting at work or with a floozy. Youll always worry if hes travelling for work or for pleasure. Dont all marriages have trust issues? Unless it is an arranged marriage, it shouldnt. Financial problems, thats normal.
He CHEATED on Me should I forgive him
My ex husband cheated on me a million times. well, not really a million but 15. that i knew about. So its probably more like 80. Im Danielle Ford, the founder of YoungMomsClub and a victim of chronic cheating. If youve been a victim as well and youre wondering if you should forgive him or not, then you need to watch this tutorial cause Im gonna make the answer really easy for you to figure out.
Every single time i caught my husband cheating, it would be the same story. i dont know why I did it. Im just dumb. She means nothing to me. Youre the only one I love. Blah Blah Blah Blah Blah. I grew up in split homes. My parents got divorced when I was like 2 weeks old. So ever since I was a little girl I knew that I wanted to get married and have a family and never ever get divorced. I also grew up very Christian, went to a private Christian school and I knew.
That divorce was the devil. Because I was determined not to get divorced, I tried everything I could think of to make it work from marriage counseling, to threatening him and I even considered just accepting that he would just cheat on me forever and thats just how my life would be. After over a year of trying to get him to stop cheating on me, unsuccessfully, I knew that nothing was going to work, he wasnt going to change and I ended up leaving him.
And filing for divorce. thank god. For me, the right decision was divorce but that doesnt mean that its right for everyone or that theres no way to get past cheating. If youre in a situation where you are trying to decide whether to forgive him or end the relationship after cheating, then there are 3 questions that you need to answer really honestly. You only need to answer them to yourself.
The first question is: if you chose to forgive him, would you actually be able to let it go? That means actually forgiving him, not throwing it in his face when youre upset, not freaking out when he goes out, not wondering whether hes with another girl or not. Theres no wrong answer to this. It has nothing to do with your maturity level or how much you love him or anything like that, its just yes or no. Could you completely let it go?.
If the answer is no, then stop right here. take the advice from a girl who used to check his cell phone, every single pocket in his clothes, search his car for evidence, drive past his work to make sure his car was there. it fucking sucks. That is just no way to live, its miserable. I promised myself after that experience that if I ever felt like I needed to check pockets or drive by someones work, it would be done. The second question to ask yourself when deciding.
To forgive someone after cheating is: if it were to happen again, would it completely destroy you? Again, no wrong answer. If you were able to let it go and forgive him and then he cheated again. could you handle it? If you know that youre strong enough to not take it personally and just know that hes an idiot and its his loss if it happens again, and you answered yes to question.
Number one, then its probably worth another shot. But if you know that it would destroy you if he cheats again, especially after working so hard to let it go, then you shouldnt take the chance. Its not worth losing yourself over. After his last affair, I realized that I couldnt handle it if it happened again. I was so depressed and I felt like there must be something wrong with me or something that he wants that I.